This may happen to many wives, but not every situation is the same for everyone else. So, your husband has been acting a little funny lately. He is glued to his phone for many hours and the sweet life has gone down the drain. Could it be possible that your man is having an affair? Maybe he is just tired and is neck-deep in work. It is also possible that your man has a secret Facebook account and you have no clue about it.
Getting married does not mean you cannot have a secret. There will be times when you would secretly crush on another woman’s husband or stalk the ex on Facebook using a fake account. Your spouse is a human being so he may also have a hidden social media account. The question is – How do you tell if your man has been using Facebook secretly?
This article sheds light on the subject and clears all the doubts clouding up your head.
How to get started with your search mission?
If there is something fishy going on, you have the right to know about it. Relationships are built on trust and if he is being secretive, you ought to know what is going on in his life.
Well, there is a possibility that you might find his secondary profile on Facebook and he may be chatting with his ex-girlfriend or talking to younger women and cheating on you. Maybe women are sending him nudes and he is having dirty conversations with random people. If you find out anything during the process, there is always a way to deal with such instances.
So be mentally prepared that you are going to find out some nasty details in the entire process. That being said, nothing is new for the majority of men just like women do. Statistics show that Facebook removes 1.3 billion profiles quarterly. So, it’s not a surprising fact.
Note down all his email addresses
The Facebook account is linked with an email address. So, you can type the email of your husband and hit the search button. If one email does not work, try another. Make sure you download the Facebook application on your mobile or use the browser.
You would need to sign up using your email address. If you are already present on Facebook, simply log in and type his email address. Once you type it, your husband’s profile will show up in the search results. But the only trouble is that your partner may be using an email address that you are not aware of.
In case this does not work, there are some other ways to find out.
Break into his phone or laptop
When he is with the children or in the shower, breaks into his phone and laptop. Usually, people stay signed in on their gadgets like mobile phones and laptops.
There will be notifications reaching his email address. If his Facebook account is not open, you can try searching for notifications in his email inbox. You will get some clues here.
If you spot a notification, click on it and you will know that he has a secret profile. His emails, phone chats, and call logs will reveal a lot more about him. We will let you figure that out on your own.
Type his phone number in the search engine
This method may work for you but don’t assume it’s 100% true. That’s because Facebook has lots of fake users with all different kinds of details and contact numbers. That means another person could be using your husband’s mobile phone number to sign up for Facebook or its dating platforms. Of course, there are many reasons behind that, but scammers can try to cause issues for you just like others on the web.
Now, you can go to Facebook and type his phone number in the search engine. If he shows up, you would know that the man is up to something fishy. That could mean he has another hidden Facebook and you were not aware of it. So, you can ask Why did he have to hide it from you?
A username
Don’t forget that most users on social media have the same username across all their profiles. So, when the guy has TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube profiles, it’s most likely he shares the same username across these platforms. That can give you hints about any hidden page they have with their username you’re not aware of. Thus, it’s a great method you can try to see if there are other pages you see for the first time.
Google is the best place for that, you can try the use of your partner’s quotes to see where they appear online. But if that doesn’t work, you can try dedicated search engines for usernames on social media networks. These can have faster search engines with a focused audience.
Ask him directly
Instead of spending too much time searching and entering his email address and phone number, you can ask him directly. He is your husband and that is a good enough reason to be truthful.
If he hesitates and looks around while you are asking the question – consider it a red flag. He should be truthful to you and not hide such details.
In case he DOES accept that he has an account, ask him to add you up. This way both of you will live happily ever after.
A secret FB profile is a red flag
It is alright to have secrets but if your spouse has an account for flirting with other women – this is a serious problem.
Being in a relationship requires both the people to be truthful and loyal. You can either opt-out or be 100% honest with your partner.
If the man is hiding a secret Facebook account from you, he is most likely using it for malicious purposes. He may be flirting with younger women, having sex talks, or chasing his ex.
What if he is planning to divorce you and those chats are accessible via Facebook?
As a partner, you should be aware of what is going on. Why did he need to hide this account from you?
For us, it is plain and simple – if you are falling out of love with your wife/husband, talk about it or put an end.
There is no point in being in an unhappy relationship where you have to cheat on your partner.
What to do next?
Now that you have found the secret social media account, you must move to the next step.
How would you react to it?
The first reaction you will get is anger. You would be upset that he had to hide it from you. It will be heartbreaking if you find out that the man is sleeping with another woman or flirting with younger babes.
The best way to deal with it is to talk to him. If he is cheating on you, call him for a discussion. Don’t end things in haste. So, sit down and talk to each other. Then, tell him that you know about his secret account and the affair.
As a mature and responsible person, he will accept his mistakes and apologize. If not, you know that nothing can stop you from leaving. You have as much right to be happy and live your life.
So, go ahead and check whether the man of your dreams and the father of your children has multiple accounts on Facebook or not.
