Cardi B has given some major inspiration to young ladies. When she said, ‘he’s so handsome – what’s his name?’, young women got inspired and started using the bold line on men. If you spot a cute boy in a café or a club, you might miss the chance of seeing him again. In case he is someone from college or school, you still have a chance of running into him and passing a smile.
There was a time when approaching a young boy used to be a long process. You would ask your friends to introduce you to him or look at him from a distance and be happy about it. Women would secretly crush on a cute boy and it would go on for days.
In this century, women are becoming fierce and open. Be like Cardi B – just go to him and ask his name. How hard is it to say that he’s handsome? The fear of being rejected may be bothering you, but you would never get to know the outcome if you didn’t ask.
Young (and older) men get flattered when a woman approaches them. Those days are long gone when a man would chase a woman. Women do not shy away from speaking their minds or doing the chase.
Now that we are on the same page, let’s talk about some cute ways to ask someone to be your boyfriend.
Should you ask him directly?
The answer is YES. You should not be hiding your feelings for this man. He is a wonderful boy and in case you feel he can be a good boyfriend; you must ask him.
There is a possibility that another girl is eyeing him. What if he approaches him first? You will forever live with the regret of not telling him about your feelings.
Don’t be the one who waits for the boy to come to you. Many times, men are unsure of the feelings of the opposite sex. They try to pick hints but it is best to go to them and express your feelings.
Some boys are confident and others are shy. Go, girl – make the first move and get him on the same boat.
How do you ask him to be your boyfriend?
Women can be cute and thoughtful with their proposals. If you are a girl, you are blessed with this innate talent of being creative.
We have tons of cute proposal ideas for you. If you’re interested, keep reading the article to find out more about the ways to propose the new man in your life.
Take him on an ego boost trip
Flattery always works – even in the real world. When a man proposes to a woman, he talks about his beauty and how she changed his world. You can also give his ego a boost by complimenting him. Talk about his intellect, hot body, great moves, perfect lips, warmth, friendly attitude, and anything that attracted you to him. If you think he is hot, let him know.
We don’t see any reason for being shy or indirect. Once you are done complimenting him, touch his hand and tell him that you can’t be ‘just friends with him. You want more of him and that’s non-negotiable. He would be thrilled to see your confidence and the way you approached him without any fear.
Slip a note in his pocket
The next time you meet him, slip a little note in his pocket. Write down in plain and simple words, ‘I like you. Can you be my boyfriend for the next X years? We’ll work out the number of years later. How about we begin now and figure it out later?’ This is a cute way to propose to him. He will reply to you via text or in person.
Ask him out
Leave him a text saying that you want to cook or take him out for lunch. Get rid of the old idea of a boy asking out a girl, okay? When you are having dinner/lunch/brunch, you could casually say – ‘Wouldn’t it be nice if we could do this regularly? As boyfriend and girlfriend?’ He will probably smile and give you a prompt reply. There is a possibility that he might blush and be speechless.
Show him what you got
What will he get if he becomes your boyfriend? You must send him a quick text saying, ‘I’m the perfect combination of hot and cute. I’ll cook a good meal but I’ll also make your world go round. If this works, we will have the cutest babies. If not, we’ll still tell our respective kids about the little affair we had. What say? Do you want to be a part of this adventure?’
All these ideas are cute and you wouldn’t have to flaunt a placard to get his attention. In case he rejects the offer, don’t be too disheartened because all this is just part and parcel of life.
Please remember that you are going to laugh hard when you grow up and get married to a handsome and loving man.
Having a crush is normal (and healthy). We would be concerned if your heart doesn’t beat for the cute boy in your class/office.
Summing up
Ideally, don’t give a stalker vibe to the new person in your life. He probably wants a relaxed and chirpy girlfriend who doesn’t feel insecure or jealous.
Be yourself, dress up, doll up, or just bowl him over by playing soccer with him. Find out what interests this boy (soccer, swimming, vocal jazz, food, or even porn). If he likes to take part in some activity, do it with him and showcase your fun and adventurous side too.
In case he is the quiet type and likes to read books, you can also take an interest in it. You don’t have to showcase a false side. Ask him what books he likes to read and he would be happy to tell you the plot of the story.
In a nutshell, just be YOU, and don’t be shy to express how you feel.
