When we try to understanding our feeling, that may not be easy all the time. However, there are some hints that indicates attraction to someone through their facial expressions,body language and actions. But when you want to decode what you colleague wants to tell you between the lines, you may find that challenging because the workplace force us to hide what we wants to say in many times.
Your friends have been coaxing you to mingle with men, but you can’t get over your toxic ex. Well, some relationships come with an expiry date. You must move on and find someone who can respect and cherish you. The question is – Where do you find good men?
Look around and you may find someone. Funnily, the best place to find a good match is at the workplace. Your office may have a pool of men and some might be even having a secret crush on you.
Hold that thought! You landed on this page for a reason. Perhaps there IS a male co-worker who you think has a crush on you. On second thought, crushes existed long ago when we were teenagers. As we grow up, we start appreciating people.
You may want to know whether this co-worker likes you or not. If there is a spark from both sides, you might as well start a relationship with this handsome co-worker.
This article sheds light on the subtle signs a male co-worker likes you. So, read the full post and make good use of the information.
He’s got eyes for you
Your prospective boyfriend aka the male co-worker has been staring at you for hours. Maybe he looks at you when you are looking in the other direction.
But staring could mean many things, right? Either he likes you or he wants to secretly kill you.
Some men are shy and they cannot admit their feelings. Your friends and fellow co-workers must have noticed him staring at you. Double-check this observation with a colleague.
What you should do: Go up to him and start talking. If you find him cute, there is no harm in conversing. But if you do not like him staring at you, tell him that it makes you uncomfortable.
He’s trying to spend a lot of time with you
When a man likes you, he would try to find excuses or ways to spend more time with you. In the cafeteria, he follows you and probably sips coffee from the mug you left at the counter. That’s a little too much!
Maybe he waits in the car parking or holds the lift for you. If you find yourself alone with him every other day, this boy has a serious crush on you.
The cute boy from work is trying to find an opportunity to speak to you. Maybe he likes looking at you. Is it possible that he sees his little/elder sister in you? Just kidding! You must take this as a hint and think about it. Do you want to converse with the boy who likes you?
He approaches you for quick conversations
Does this boy come to your desk and talk about everything but work? This is a sign that this male co-worker likes you a lot.
He is probably looking forward to hanging out with you. If he does not talk about work and asks questions about your favorite cuisine and color, you should know that this man likes you a lot.
He will also try to find out whether you have a boyfriend or not. If you do, he will back off. In case you don’t have one, this boy isn’t bad either.
He offers help
The man cares about you and will offer help whenever required. If you have an issue at work, this adorable man will stand up for you and offer help.
It is his way of showing that he cares about you.
Don’t be surprised if your cute male co-worker is protective of you. He wants to date you and has a soft corner for you in his heart. In case this man stands up for you and offers help, you can give him a little promotion (from co-worker to friend).
He dresses up for YOU
Just like women dress up for men, this boy comes to the office in his best shirt or suit. He wants you to notice him. You will see this change in a man when he starts liking you.
But please ensure that he is not crushing on any other girl in the office. How will you be sure that he dresses up for you?
You can only wait for him to approach you with his dreamy eyes and sexy suit. Wait for it, girl! He would make a move soon enough.
His body language changes around you
Once a man is in love or he likes someone dearly, his body language will change. Notice the changes in his body:
- Does he sit in a different posture when you’re around?
- He smiles at you but does not do that with other coworkers.
- This cute boy from the office wants to sit in front of you so that he gets a better glance at your face. That’s romantic!
- He gets nervous around you. His palms get sweaty and he fidgets. Well, this means that he likes you way too much.
- The male coworker may lean towards you. If you are uncomfortable, tell him to maintain distance. But if you both have hots for each other, consider getting closer and giving him a peck (maybe not in the office).
He showers compliments on you
You are aware of your beauty and intelligence, but this boy right here is mesmerized by you. He will compliment you every day because he likes you.
He will not just compliment your outfit, but also your smile, eyes, and the way you walk.
If he can’t stop complimenting you, there is a chance he is head-over-heels in love with you.
Now that you are aware of the subtle signs, you can decide whether you want to speak to him or take things forward. If you already have a boyfriend, consider telling him that you are hooked.
In case you are interested in him, start talking and go for a little date. Being in a private space with him will help you get to know him better. You can then decide whether you want to date him or be friends.
